Q. Should I say sorry to a girl that I had feelings for her?

larry52

This looks like one of those questions where the original question is inscrutable, the Quoraverse eventually modifies it and adds detail, more people respond, then the details get modified again so newcomers don't have a clue what they're responding to.

I mean, should I apologize to someone I had feelings for? Seriously? Why would you apologize for having the extreme good taste to have feelings for someone? No, we do not apologize for feelings. We apologize for actions, specifically actions we take that adversely affect someone. Intentionally or otherwise.

Now someone said something about pushing, which can be taken both as literal, physical pushing, or as verbal/emotional pushing. Both of those might be considered actions taken in response to feelings, and both can have adverse effects on the pushee. If that's the case, then yes, apologize.

But this whole business of feeling bad because you have feelings? Dude... yes, some of our cultures make a valiant effort to tell their males that it's unmanly to have emotions, especially tender ones. In my not so humble opinion, that notion is a load of codswallop. Real men love their wives and children, and have the ability to be tender and emotional with them. So if you feel bad for having feelings, it may mean that you've bought into a lie that says that men shouldn't have feelings. Or that feelings constitute weakness, and you should suppress them until you stop feeling them anymore. Again, codswallop.

Q. What is the most offensive or hurtful thing you can say or do to a man and to a woman?

larry52

Now I know where the term “HELL HOLE” originated from!

Tell a man, or woman, “ who ever told you, that you knew how to F**k, LIED! ” ouch…

Seriously, on a scale of 1 to 100, with 1 being the worse, I’d rate your ability to sexually please a woman / or man/ about minus 1000!

Was that the cold toilet I just f**ked, or was that your vagina?

Who left the seat up on your vagina?

I’d rather sit on your nose, than your dick - your nose is bigger and harder!

Gee - all scrotum sack- no penis!

Where’d you get your penis, Toys R Us, because you sure play with it a lot!

Is that a pubic hair or your penis?

Now I know where the name NEEDLEDICK the BUG F**ker, came from!

I wasn’t into necrophilia - until I screwed you…

If I throw a penny in, can I make a wish? Referring to a woman’s vagina.

I dropped a rock in, how long before I heard it hit bottom? 20 maybe 30 seconds? again, / a woman’s vagina.

Hello down there… down there… down there… down there…/ a woman’s vagina

“Geronomo!” Just before you enter her

Just a minute… I need to get the bush hog mower to clear a path. / referring to a woman’s excessively thick vagina hair.

Whoa… for a quick moment there, when you lifted your arm, I thought you were flashing Bush!

She’s kinda fun, if you can used to the smell of tuna and feet!

Your breathe smells worse than a public urinal!

Does it bite? It looks really mean! guess…

Your teeth remind of, wait… I got it, a rusty school bus!

Are you sucking on a canoe, or is that your nose?

In high school, they called her the Toad Hole!

Damn! What smells like a dead cat? Him or Her.

Your face reminds me of a Baboon's Butt!

At first I thought a skunk was in the yard, ( or bed ) but then I realized that you opened your legs!